Yep here’s yet another rant.
A totally different subject than the last one.
This one’s about “complicated” people. Both online and IRL.
One word. BULLSHIT!
You’re as complicated as you make yourself.
Some do it to feel special, some do it because they think it makes them look cool and some just do it to try and draw any form of attention to them whenever they can.
If they’d read this they might say “That’s not true!, you don’t know me!”.
Well you know what? You’ve probably just pulled the wool over your own eyes so badly that you’ve started to believe in your own self pitying BS.
In which case I say, “Here, have a chocolate bar and a tampon”.
If you’re someone in a 3rd world country without food, grew up surrounded by war, were abused or something like that, then yes, you might have some tricky issues to deal with, I’m very sorry if any of that happened to you. And in that case, ofcourse this blog isn’t about you.
But if you grew up in a decent place, had at least a somewhat decent life then there’s absolutely NO REASON to complain like that and pretend your life is hopeless.
Sure life can be annoying from time to time, but when you imagine what could’ve happened, it’s all peaches.
You could be living on the street, eating outta garbage cans, be a prostitute slave someone bought on some black market on the other side of the world. People go through these things every day, and there are still pampered people here who wanna kill themselves?!!! To those people I say, You ungrateful little cunts! Go ahead and off yourself. You suck attention and all the energy out of worried good friends for years on end. While you don’t even deserve them. Some REALLY troubled person could benefit from these caring people, Someone who’s really had it rough.
I’ve seen and known so many people like the ones i’m ranting about, and I can honestly say I’m sick and tired of worrying about them, giving advice, and getting absolutely no gratitude or results in return.
It’s always the same cycle, for every single one of them.
* Being nice, trying to make them feel better = No change and more pity drawing.
** Trying to identify, which is damn near impossible because there’s no way I could feel the same way they do if I were in their situation. I’d just solve the problem instead of whining about it. But I’d still “try” to identify with em and talk them through = Agreement yet still no change.
*** Getting tired of it, tell the truth (in an as tactful way as possible) and try to scrub out their eyes and make them see that things aren’t that bad and that they can do something about the things they don’t like about their life if they’d get off of their lazy arses = The standard anger and self denial reply, “You don’t know me, I’m complicated and no one understands me!” This usually brings us back to step one, without much (if any) change at all.
Wash, rinse and repeat.
Yes, This really has been the same for at least 30 people I’ve known online or otherwise.
So if you’re like this, trust me. You’re not complicated, you’re just lazy and crave attention.
And furthermore, you’re obviously not a “special” case.
If after all this you still feel you’re the special complicated person in need of help or suicide,
go see a shrink. Because I don’t get payed enough for this (read: “at all”) for it to be dragging me down aswell.
The “you don’t understand me” part is the part that really ticks me off. People like that are as transparent as they come, so if they insult my intelligence by throwing that line at me ya know it’s really over 
I’ll give anyone advice once or twice, but if it gets ignored or thrown back in my face, then hey, so be it. I donated my 2 cents.
This rant isn’t aimed at one person in particular.
In fact it’s aimed at all of these people. Including the ones I haven’t met yet but might in the furure 
Get angry, take it personal if you want.
I seriously don’t give a crap 
All that’s left to say is, “Have a nice life”.
Because I know I will
-Dee.
